Couples these days are pulling no punches when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom. With the release of movies like 50 Shades of Grey, lovers have become more confident about expressing their wildest fantasies to each other. One of the most commonly discussed fantasy among couples is anal sex. With anal sex, it is absolutely necessary for you to get it right the first time, or else it would be a bitter experience for both partners. So, just to ensure that you have a sizzling first experience, we have compiled some valuable tips that will help you stay on the right track!
First and foremost, whatever goes inside the anus should not come in contact with anything else, irrespective it’s fingers, sex toys, or penis – don’t let them wander. A guy should never take his penis out of the anus and put inside a woman’s vagina. This can cause serious infections – both couples are at a high risk of cystitis, and experiencing a burning sensation while peeing is never a welcoming feeling! After any kind of anal pleasuring, one should immediately change condoms and clean their relevant body parts thoroughly.
Obviously, STDs are one of the major concerns that surrounds anal sex, especially if you are not doing it with your long term partner who has been tested and you are sure is free of them. STDs like AIDS, syphilis, genital wards, and gonorrhea are spread through anal sex. So make sure that you use a condom while having anal sex; it’s not worth taking the risk.
One of the most important things to keep in mind when you think of anal sex is that, unlike vagina, the anus isn’t self-lubricating, you have to get your own grease. The more you have fun with Anal lubes, the more are the chances of you getting the best out of anal sex. It is necessary for you to keep applying lube as the anus soaks it up quicker than the vagina. More the lube, easier will be the initial penetration.
Many types of lube are used for anal sex; Vaseline, spit and new-age silicone-based lubes. We’d highly suggest that you invest a bit more and get yourself a high quality water—based lubricant; keep in mind that an oil-based lubrcant like Vaseline will harm the latex in a condom, affecting its usefulness and protection against infections.
It is always better to know more about lubes before you get into the act. How to use them? What are the side effects of anal lubes? Finding answers to these questions would help you carry out the entire act seamlessly.
A penis is disturbingly big to be the first thing to enter a butt. It is always better to start with something smaller and then take it further. Fingers can be excellent to begin with. Start by using one finger, then two, just to help you get used to the feeling. Ask your man to do this while you both are indulging in oral sex for extra pleasure. Ask him to trim his finger nails, not forget the lube, and as an added layer of safety, wear latex gloves.