69 Sex Position
Before we expand and make your imagination go wild, let’s begin with understanding the meaning of the 69 position. "69" position refers to the carnal arrangement that lets couple indulge in simultaneous oral sex. The position is called “69” because of the way it appears when a couple match their mouths to each other’s genitals. And, while it involves a little coordination and a lot more confidence you’re your regular bedroom moves, trust us, the outcome is absolutely worth it.
Now before you go all guns blazing in the bedroom or wherever your fantasy takes you, spare sometime and understand some pros and cons associated with the 69 position. It’s just, we really don’t like to be responsible if things go south instead of north.
Pros OF 69 Position
As it is a tough positon to master, 69 can help improve coordination, trust and even understanding between both partners. It can be a perfect position to spice things up and send passion flying through the roof. If things have started to get predictable and boring in the bedroom, 69 will make it fun and challenging again!
It also helps save a lot of time as you don’t have to take turns to perform oral sex.
Another major advantage being, pleasuring each other with this position can help in keeping unwanted pregnancies away in case you have forgotten to carry contraceptives with you.
The risk of spreading sexually transmitted diseases is also lower than unprotected anal or vaginal sex. However, this position exposes you to STDs like throat gonorrhea, Chlamydia and herpes. So, it is better to know your partner’s sexual history to be safe.
Cons of 69 Position
Oral sex is not everybody’s cup of tea and thus this position won’t be too. Also, there is a high chance of one partner climaxing before the other and that can take the entire pleasure out of this sex position.
To make this position do wonders, both partners need to be compatible in terms of weight and height. Or else, this sex position will become too uncomfortable for either one of the partner to enjoy. The other thing about the position is that its nature makes it suffocating for some people who are performing it.
So, the simplest way to understand the 69 position is by looking at it as a glass of fine wine. It is an acquired taste, and some people swear by it. For others, they might like to stick to their regular glass of stout beer. But there is no harm in trying everything once. So, give it a shot and see whether you both develop a penchant for this position, or you would like to stick to the basics.