While dealing with men can be as tricky as solving rubik’s cube while being blindfolded, sometimes they can be really useful when it comes to offering dating advice. In this article, we are dishing out dating advices straight from the horse’s mouth. Hope by the end of this article you have enough clarity and lesser confusion.
- Don’t lose your individuality Don’t let your man become your only obsession. If you give him all the attention all the time, he would eventually get bored of you because this feeling would become too overwhelming for him. You need to remember that he fell in love with the ambitious YOU who used to be all about her dreams hobbies and passion. Men are drawn towards confident women who understands the concept of “interdependence.” Interdependent means that you both strike a good balance between dependence and independence. In simple terms, you have created equal space for your relationship as well as your friends, passion and work. Don’t lose track of things that are important to you, and don’t give up on the life you were leading before you started dating: your Sunday Zumba class, a yearly outing with your besties, etc.
- Refrain from overindulging While you might think it is ok to go all guns blazing and drink three glasses of wine at dinner, there are chances that he would not share the same enthusiasm. Let him to get to know the sober you first. If you chugging drinks down to loosen up, let us tell you that watching a stand-up act before you leave would be a better idea. Most importantly, at the table, call for a real dinner. Majority of the times you would shy away saying I’m not hungry, but when the food comes on the table, you suddenly realize that you are famished and you might end up reaching for his plate. There is nothing wrong with it, but it is always better to bring a strong decisive personality to the table.
- Some men are commitment phobic Men might need a little more time than you to decide if you’re the one. Even if he is open to have a relationship, you trying and forcing it on him would result in he thinking that you are not interested in him, and you are just desperate to date anyone. So even though it is a good idea to let him know about your stance, it is always better to take time and get to know each other more.
- Don’t harrow him with phone calls If you are constantly calling, texting and making all the plans, a man would never feel the need to make any effort. Let the effort to communicate be equally balanced. This doesn’t mean that you absolutely abstain from calling your boyfriend, rather make sure that even surprises you with sudden plans. If you both are equally fond of each other, there would be a natural balance in the amount of communication. Sometimes take a break from your regular schedule of calling him to check whether he reaches out to you.