Okay, let's not pretend it's the 1800s. We're out here being bold, beautiful, and doing our thing, whatever that looks like. But fun-time is way more fun when you're not panicking about what you might've caught or shared the next morning.
That's where safe intercourse practices come in. And nope, they're not boring. In fact, knowing how to have safer sex makes you even more confident and in control. So, let's break it down in a fuss-free manner.
Wrap it Before Anything Happens (Yes, Even That)
First up: Condoms. Yep, they're still the OGs of what is a safer fun game.
Think of them as your stylish little sidekick, low-key, reliable, and ready to step in at the perfect moment. When used correctly, condoms can be up to 98% effective. But it's not just about preventing pregnancy, but they're also fab for blocking most STIs.
And the variety? Absolutely iconic. Whether you're into heightened sensations, extra glide, or fun flavours to kick off the pre-play mood, there's something for everyone. Want that smooth, feel-good flow? A good-quality, water-based lubricant is your go-to; it's gentle, effective, and keeps things moving just right. Oils or lotions can weaken condoms, increase the risk of tearing, and irritate sensitive skin, so best to skip them.
With trusted options from Durex in the mix, you're not just choosing quality; you're choosing comfort, confidence, and all the good vibes.
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A Quick Test, A Big Win, Now That's a Vibe.
If you're active, curious, or enjoy exploring, regular STI check-ups are essential. Getting tested doesn't mean you've done something wrong; instead, it means you care about yourself and your partner(s). Total green flag behaviour.
There are loads of clinics that offer fast, friendly, and discreet testing. Some you can walk into, others take bookings. You can even pick the tests you're comfortable with. Swabs, blood, or urine. It's really quick and easy. The peace of mind? Next-level.
Waiting a few days for results is completely normal. In the meantime, pat yourself on the back, you're already ahead of the curve on safe intercourse practices.
From Flirty Beginnings to That Grand Finale, Play It Safe
Intimate time comes in many flavours, not just the old-school script. So, if you're getting playful with the mouth involved (you know what we mean), you might want to add a dental dam into the mix.
Think of dental dams as the chic barrier you never knew you needed, like a sleek little sheet that adds a layer of safety while keeping things steamy. One-time use only. Don't stretch it or reuse it. Unwrap, position, enjoy, and dispose of responsibly.
(Also, don't use cling film. We know it's tempting, but let's not DIY our safety gear.)
Lube Up, Buttercup
Using lubricant isn't a nice extra; it's a smart move for comfort and care. It helps things glide more smoothly, which means less friction and fewer tiny tears that can make your body more vulnerable to unwanted infections. It's a simple way to take care of yourself while keeping things feeling good.
Opt for a water-based one that's specifically designed for intimate areas. Bonus: they feel fab, help everything glide smoother, and are totally condom-compatible.
We at Durex have got your back with decades of experience and just the right amount of glide to make your experience smoother, safer, and 100% more enjoyable.
Explore the Art of Hands-on Fun
Not in the mood for full-on play? Or are you just keeping things chill tonight? No stress. There's so much joy in touch, tease, and sensual slow burns.
Using your hands during fun time isn't just safe, it's an art form. Add in a personal massage gel, and suddenly, you've got a whole experience going. Think candlelight, body strokes, and tension melting in all the right ways.
And here's the best bit: it's an epic way to build closeness without feeling like you have to do it all. It's still intimate. It still counts. And it's still safe.
Talk the Talk before the Walk
Let's normalise talking about safety before things get steamy. It doesn't kill the vibe; in fact, it can be a huge turn-on. Knowing someone's got your health (and theirs) in mind? Mmm, dreamy.
So say it: "Have you been tested?" "Want to grab some lube and try something new?" "Should we grab condoms before we order dessert?" Go on, flirt with it.
Safe sex practices aren't a to-do list, they're a vibe. The goal isn't just to avoid stuff; it's to feel amazing knowing you're taking care of your body and your joy. That's real confidence.
Exploring your preferences, getting comfy saying yes (or no), and making room for consent and communication? That's how you build a life you actually enjoy, not just perform.
Protect Your Peace and Your Pleasure!
Here's the tea: being informed about staying safe doesn't take the edge off; it actually makes everything better. It's not just about being cautious; it's about bringing confidence, care, and real connection to the table.
So, pick up the protection that suits your vibe, think Durex condoms for comfort and reliability, or explore their range of lubes designed to keep things smooth and easy. While you're at it, book that health check you've been putting off. Browse the self-care aisle as if it were made just for you, and don't hesitate to discuss what makes you feel safe and empowered.
Because looking after yourself isn't just clever, it’s seriously attractive.
Source:
https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/condoms
