Getting to Grips With Sex When it comes to sex, the first time could be scary for many. The most common fears include the possibility of pain, bleeding, if it will change things between the couple or the chance of going wrong. The key to enjoying however lies in being relaxed, happy with your partner, and most of all feeling secure. Communication helps too, sharing feelings, fears and concerns can help establish boundaries (eg. We will only do it if we use protection.). Knowing a person better also ensures that it won’t end badly, knowing what each partner wants from the relationship is a good way to establish a strong sexual chemistry. A good way to start the whole...
What is a condom? Condoms are thin pouches that are worn by men to prevent sperms from entering the vagina. To prevent pregnancy, it’s important to know how to use condoms. While there are many choices of condoms available in India, it’s recommended to choose condoms made of high quality natural latex. Condom sizes and facts While they come in a wide variety of sizes, flavours and types, they can also serve very specific functions, such as helping delay a man's orgasm, or significantly improve pleasure for both partners. Many people feel anxious about how to use condoms. Contrary to popular belief, using a condom properly is fairly easy. What is important is to pick the right condom size and...
Using lube There are many myths about lubes and when to use them. Many people think lubes are needed only by those who are dry ‘down there’. But what they don’t know is that it can make sex better for both men and women. Lubes are of three types: water based, oil based and silicone. The most common type is water based; it can be used at any time and by anybody. But this lube must be periodically re-applied, sometimes more than once during sex (you can instead keep a water spray handy to activate the dried lube to make it last longer). Oil based lubes aren’t compatible with most condoms, but they are super slippery. The best ones are silicone...
How to talk condoms with a woman You might think that men are the ones who need to be talked into using condoms, but some women can be just as bad. Tackle the condom question to keep yourself safe. If a woman says she doesn't want to use a condom, it's not time to party. If she says it to you, who else has she said it to? Even if she doesn't have a Sexually Transmitted Infection (STI), - you also have to ask yourself if you’re ready to have unplanned pregnancy? Using a condom shows you respect your partner. Tell her this. If you respect her more than she respects herself, is sex really a good idea? Condoms...
Understanding Orgasm If there’s a reward for sex, it is undoubtedly the orgasm. Sadly there are certain things than can affect someone’s ability to achieve them, for instance, if you're sleepy, unfit, have a poor diet, drink, smoke or take drugs, your ability to come may get affected. A healthy body is key to a healthy climax. Other factors that might influence said activity, such as not being ready for sex; either due to nervousness, fear of pregnancy, or previous traumatic experiences. If you feel any of these factors are affecting you, we advise you to see your general physician. But there’s no reason to worry, even if your partner can or cannot make you orgasm, it is often...
